DGR discovered Alexa (Alice) Wilding by chance when he was walking to the Arundel Club one day
in the spring of 1865. Seeing her walking next to him, he was struck with her beauty and
asked her on the spot to sit for him as a model. She said she would do it if her mother
consented. Shortly afterwards, she wrote that her mother agreed. They made an appointment
but--much to DGR's disappointment--she did not keep it. Some few months later he saw her
again by chance in the street, stopped her, and offered her generous terms if she would sit
for him (Surtees,
Grylls has some acute comments on how Wilding made such a good model for DGR's later work: she had “a lovely face, beautifully moulded in every feature, full of quiescent, soft, mystical repose. . . . She sat like the Sphinx waiting to be questioned and with always a vague reply in return” (Grylls, 114).
Wilding became one of DGR's favored models and sat for some of his most famous pictures,
including